{"id":11616,"date":"2023-04-12T13:50:32","date_gmt":"2023-04-12T18:50:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/?p=11616"},"modified":"2024-10-07T01:25:23","modified_gmt":"2024-10-07T06:25:23","slug":"lesson-in-asking-and-listening-from-ted-lasso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/lesson-in-asking-and-listening-from-ted-lasso\/","title":{"rendered":"A Lesson in Asking and Listening from Ted Lasso"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div>\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"11616\" class=\"elementor elementor-11616\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ea8c61c e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"ea8c61c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aaaac6d elementor-widget elementor-widget-template\" 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title=\"darts\" alt=\"Dart Board\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7098756 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7098756\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5bfd8c4\" data-id=\"5bfd8c4\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-038a5d4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"038a5d4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p dir=\"auto\" data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Asking questions and actively listening to the answers is a valuable communication skill that can help us understand others better, build stronger relationships, and even improve our own decision making.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1ebda265 elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1ebda265\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2a292d76\" data-id=\"2a292d76\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-688aedf elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"688aedf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A Different Kind of \"Ted Talk\"<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f946425 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f946425\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Set in an English Pub<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-249e5c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"249e5c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>To illustrate this point, enjoy this lesson from <a href=\"https:\/\/tv.apple.com\/us\/show\/ted-lasso\/umc.cmc.vtoh0mn0xn7t3c643xqonfzy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ted Lasso, the popular Apple TV+ show<\/a>. In one episode, Ted (played by Jason Sudeikis) demonstrates the consequences of being more <b>judgmental <\/b>than <b>curious<\/b> as he baits his boss\u2019s demeaning ex-husband into a high stakes game of darts in a local pub..<\/p><p>In an act that Ted labeled <em><b>White Knighting<\/b><\/em>, our hero not only defeats his arrogant, overconfident adversary in darts but proceeds to school Rupert on how his rush to judgement and lack of curiosity led to his dramatic defeat.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d83b6e2\" data-id=\"d83b6e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d05fee elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6d05fee\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"624\" height=\"415\" src=\"https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/wp-content\/uploads\/darts.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-11625\" alt=\"Dart Board\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/wp-content\/uploads\/darts.jpg 624w, https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/wp-content\/uploads\/darts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/chicagoexecutivecoaching.com\/smartleadership\/wp-content\/uploads\/darts-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 624px) 100vw, 624px\" title=\"\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-570fb2f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"570fb2f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5700375\" data-id=\"5700375\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a10dc45 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a10dc45\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">This Ted Lasso Darts Scene is rated PG for potently offensive language.<\/h5>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c134117 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"c134117\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/3S16b-x5mRA&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-dfc52c2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"dfc52c2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-37970a0\" data-id=\"37970a0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c69f718 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c69f718\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2>Beyond Better Decision Making<\/h2><p>The other lesson shared by by Ted relates to<strong><em> emotional intelligence<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/p><blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;When I realized that their underestimating me, who I was had nothing to do with it.&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote><p>With the understanding that judgements without curiosity, had nothing to 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