Being a judgmental leader is like using a sledgehammer to crack a nut – it’s destructive and totally unnecessary. Constant criticism and belittling from a leader create a pressure cooker environment that will eventually blow the lid off your team’s productivity and job satisfaction.
Not only that, but being overly judgmental can discourage your team from making decisions and taking initiative which can lead to a stagnant organization. Low morale, high turnover rates, and poor communication and teamwork are all signs of a toxic leadership style.
There are three ways that we judge:.
These three are always in play. Let’s examine the potential negative impact of each.
We all have an inner critic. It’s all too often that voice in our heads that is overly critical of our actions, abilities, dreams, aspirations, and goals.
Here are the 5 most significant consequences of a leader’s negative self-judgement:
Similar to our negative self-judgments, we all fall into the trap of forming derogatory judgments about the people we work and live with. We form opinions based on:
Being overly critical of other people will affect our relationships and our ability to lead and influence those we need the most. Some of the potential outcomes include:
We also negatively judge our situations and circumstances. This can result in a myriad of negative outcomes, including:
Leaders who are excessively judgmental of their employees may not only reduce their effectiveness in the workplace but may also be responsible for creating an unhealthy work environment.
One of the fundamental duties of leaders is to motivate their teams and help them achieve their best potential. However, when leaders focus too much on labeling their employees, criticizing them in public, or punishing them for poor performance, they diminish the collective capabilities and generate resistance among their workforce.
Employees who feel judged by their bosses instead of supported might find themselves less motivated to take risks, learn new skills or think creatively. They may even conceal errors or challenges out of fear of retribution, which can lower productivity and affect the quality of their work.
Moreover, being overly judgmental can also damage interpersonal relationships and trust. Leaders who are constantly critical or cynical towards their people risk being seen as unsupportive or disapproving. Employees who believe that their leaders are pointing out faults instead of emphasizing strengths may develop a sense of insecurity and, in turn, withdraw or turn off from their boss altogether.
Being non-judgmental helps leaders increase morale, develop mutual respect, and hence, promote productivity. Leaders who concentrate on praising their employees, setting achievable expectations, and helping them build powerful, collaborative relationships tend to have an easier time developing robust teams that work together towards common goals. How where do you start?
Whether you’re judging yourself, others, or your circumstances, you’re harboring limiting beliefs. As long as you hold on to these beliefs, negativity is more likely to prevail. And you risk experiencing all of the aforementioned consequences. Now that we’ve captured the root cause, how do you address it?
Here’s my favorite definition:
“Your capacity for handling life’s great challenges with a positive mindset rather than getting stressed and upset.”
Seems simple enough. Of course, simple doesn’t mean easy. Mental Fitness is similar to Physical Fitness in that you need to maintain it.
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