With a heavy heart, I share the news that my Mom passed away on New Year’s Day. Catherine Lemanski was 87. She led a full, long and happy life. She peacefully fell asleep and didn’t wake up.
I learned some lessons in the process of losing my Mom. Let me share two of them.
As her funeral approached, I knew that my emotions would prevent me from standing up to speak to the congregation. But I needed to share my tribute. So I practiced what I preach. I partially delegated the delivery of my tribute to a long time friend and accomplished speaker who eloquently delivered the heartfelt words that I prepared the night before.
Should you find yourself in that situation, I highly recommend the phone-a-friend approach. It honors both your friend and your loved one. Isn’t that what friends and loved ones are for?
My Fortunate FarewellAs I wrote in my funeral tribute…
For all that is good, considerate, generous, caring and thoughtful about me: I credit and thank you.
Call me a momma’s boy, if you want. I’m okay with that. The last words Mom heard from me were…
“I love you!”
While I regret that I didn’t say those words to her enough, I sleep better knowing I closed on a high note.
I admit that I’ve historically held back from using those three words. If you do too, ask yourself:
Is my reluctance a sign of strength? Or a weakness?
With that, I urge you to be strong enough to demonstrate you genuinely care. You won’t regret it.
I can’t express it better than the message in this James Taylor song. So I’ll delegate that also. This live version is special.
I wrote Negating Negativity about my efforts to coach Mom back in 2010.
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