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Humility and Naivety are Underrated

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When it comes to gaining candor and truth from others, sometimes we can out-smart ourselves. Here are two legendary examples of men who mastered the art of suppressing ego to serve their purpose.

Senator SamThe Simple Country Lawyer

The late, North Carolina Senator, Sam Ervin, presided over the Watergate hearings in the 70s. He led a panel charged with uncovering our country’s highest profile political cover-up. In his quest for uncovering the facts and gaining deeper insight, he billed himself as just a simple country lawyer. He was, in fact, a Harvard educated attorney who masked his intellect with his humility, folksy drawl and humorous story telling.

columbo wpThe TV Detective

Peter Falk’s Columbo character entertained us with a classic example of masked intelligence. Lt. Frank Columbo, a homicide detective with the Los Angeles Police Department, used his disheveled appearance, eccentric mannerisms and naive curiosity to disarm his guilty suspects to the point of full confession of their crimes.

Pursuit of Candor

The naivety and humility displayed by both Senator Sam and Lt. Columbo served them well. In both cases, their demeanor helped them to gain the truth and candor from their less-than-forthcoming adversaries.

There are times when we all need to tactfully get to the real story.

Is it possible that we can be too smart for our own good?

When getting to the real truth matters, is your persona disarming or arming? Consider taking a lesson from naivety and humility these two 70s examples.

Four Steps to Being Strategically Humble and Naive

  1. Let go of the need to demonstrate how smart you are.
  2. Adopt a genuine, child-like curiosity. >> more >>
  3. Ask clarifying questions.
  4. Listen emphatically.

 

Don’t be so naïve about the value of these two virtues!

To discover the truth, one must become as humble as the dust.” – Mahatma Ghandi.